1. Talk about things that you have in common
If you have met and fallen in love, then you must definitely have something in common, unless it is just a casual dating thing as a result of physical attraction. If this is something deeper, then you must be connected with this person, and notice a lot of similarities between the two of you. In fact, your similarities must have been what drove you to each other in the first place. Even the researches that were conducted on the relationships have proved that people usually think of their loved ones as similar to themselves in many ways, and put aside the differences. Also, our brain has a part, which activates when we meet the person who we are similar with.
Basically, the things we share in common can make us connect on multiple levels. This is why bringing these things into the conversation is an excellent idea because it will make both people feel close and have a sense of understanding each other. You can talk to your partner about the beliefs that you share in common, the habits that you possess together, the things you like and dislike. It can be any topic that would bring you on the same page, and make you feel that your connection is growing stronger.