8. Ask who she looks up to
It is always interesting to find out who is your girlfriend’s role model. It will help you understand her goals, purposes, and intentions better. If you want to learn who she admires and respects, then you could ask her this question. You can also get interested why exactly she chose this person to look up to, and in which ways she wants to be like them. It can be anyone – her family member, friend, or her favourite celebrity. We usually look up to people who we want to be like, and those who are doing things that we dream of. So, the answer of your girlfriend to this question will make you learn about her dreams, goals and the way she sees herself in the future.
9. Talk about your future together
The depth of these discussions usually depends on how close you are, and how long you have been together. If you are dating for not a very long time yet, then you are probably not ready to discuss such topics as marriage or kids, but you can still talk about some plans with her, like places you would like to visit together or things you want to do. It will help you feel much more connected, and your girlfriend will feel secure with you, knowing that you are not planning on abandoning her, and are including her in your future plans. Even if it is just a relaxed talk about your plans for the next week, it can make you both feel like your relationship is something bigger than casual dating with no obligations.