4. Discuss gratitude
Every person feels gratitude for something that happens in their life and the things they have. It is an excellent topic for discussion because focusing on gratitude is a very positive thing: it is much better than dwelling on negativity and complaining about how everything goes wrong. It can also be a very good way to comfort your girlfriend whenever something in her life is going wrong – just nudge her in a positive direction. Asking her girlfriend about what she feels grateful for means inspiring her and making her feel happier about her life. It is a very easy way to bring her in a good and cheerful mood.
You can ask some specific questions – for example, about the thing that she feels the most grateful for, or for the person that she is thankful to for being in her life. In the random conversations, you can just choose the topic which is focused around gratitude. In her low moments, it will be the best way to cheer her up – concentrating on the positives is a great strategy to beat the negativity.
5. Talk about embarrassing moments
You can discuss this topic with a trusted person because most of those people who have had embarrassing moments in their life are not ready to discuss them with those they barely know. So, if you are exchanging such things with your girlfriend, it is a very positive thing, which means that your relationship is heading in a right direction, and you trust each other enough to know that the other person will not judge or laugh. This topic is reserved for the closest people. At first, it might be awkward to discuss, but it is also useful because, through it, you will show that you are a vulnerable person and that you also have your low moments.